When You Can Do It All: Finding Focus as a Creative Woman

There’s a unique joy—and a quiet struggle—that comes with being multi-talented. For those of us whose gifts span across the arts, business, and hospitality, finding one clear path can feel like trying to choose a single color in a world full of vibrant shades. My own journey is a testament to the beauty and complexity of such a life.

From the time I was young, I was drawn to many things: dance, political science, piano, art education—each of them sparked something in me. Eventually, I earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Fashion Design, followed by a Master’s in Business Administration. My path has included government contracting, sewing and garment quality control, and now, owning and operating an event space. It has never been linear, but it has always been inspired.

By day, I serve as a Senior Fabricator and Quality Assurance Specialist for the Air Force Uniform Office. As seen in the images above, I spend my 9-to-5 surrounded by sewing machines and fabric, ensuring military garments meet precise specifications. I write technical instructions for manufacturers and verify that each uniform not only meets standards but represents excellence. It’s detailed, focused work—and it satisfies the analytical, technical side of me.

But when evening comes, my event space calls. It is here that my creative heart comes alive.

I’ve always loved interiors, soft fabrics, thoughtful design, and warm hospitality. I believe my truest gift lies in what I call “domestic brilliance”—welcoming guests, creating beauty, and setting the tone for memorable gatherings. In my event space, I am the hostess, the designer, the curator of ambiance. Every chair placement, color palette, and table setting tells a story of care and creativity.

The challenge, however, has always been focus. When you’re gifted in many areas, your mind often leaps from one idea to another. One business venture blossoms into three more ideas before the first one has fully taken root. It can be overwhelming—but it’s also thrilling.

The secret I’ve learned is this: you must be intentional. You must set goals and allow yourself to pour into one area long enough to see the fruit. Only then do the scattered pieces begin to come together. For me, I’ve found peace in knowing that my path doesn’t have to be confined. I can use every part of my journey—the education, the creativity, the structure, the spontaneity—to serve a greater calling.

Now, I’ve finally found alignment. I sew for service during the day, and I design and host for creativity in the evening, both inspiring me to write and share vivid expressions. Everything I’ve studied, everything I’ve experienced, lives in harmony when I share my gifts with others through writing, teaching and expressing.

And that, I believe, is the true reward of having many talents—not choosing just one, but learning how to make them all dance together.